Project Harmony (projectharmony.com) knows it is common for children to receive a new technology device this holiday season, and for some, this is the first time they have access to texting, downloading music, taking and receiving photos, instant messaging, social media apps, watching videos, etc. In addition, they have access to cyberbullying, meeting strangers and talking to people who are not necessarily who they say they are. That’s a lot of access at the tip of children’s fingers, not to mention, that is a lot to manage as a parent.

It is no surprise that the internet has changed the way children interact with the world. According to Pew Research Center, teens are increasingly sharing information through social media. Sharing this kind of information makes it easy for online perpetrators to seek out potential victims, gather personal information and make contact. Here are some general tips and guidance to help parents make decisions about what apps and rules children need in order to use their new devices and internet safely.

General Tips & Guidance

Tell children to:

  • Never give out identifying information such as their name, address, neighborhood, phone number, school information or extracurricular activities.
  • Let their parents know immediately if someone asks for pictures or personal information.
  • Be aware of what apps the kids are using and know the apps’ capabilities. CommonSenseMedia.org is a great resource that provides reviews of commonly used apps and video games among youth.
  • Set time limits on computers and smartphones and have rules around where devices are kept and can be used.
  • Use the parent or caregiver’s name and email when signing up for games or apps.

If one’s child is subjected to inappropriate content, cyberbullying or even sextortion, ensure they know they are not at fault. If a child thinks he/she will be punished for receiving inappropriate content or cyberbullying, they will not tell a trusted adult. Talk to the child, collect evidence (emails, texts, screenshots of social media posts, etc) and contact the police if physical threats are involved.

Project Harmony is offering a free online safety training for parents, caregivers and educators on January 16. Visit projectharmony.com/training/calendar for more information and to register.